Petro Koçi writes a letter to a friend

Letter to a friend. Dear friend, I learned that you are disappointed. But do not despair or try to give a lecture, driven by disappointment! Do not hurry, do not be surprised. Such things happen everywhere, every day, so you can not claim that life would save you this too. I do not believe that interpersonal relationships should be seen only in this light. Of course, I know, in many cases this also happens to us! So to get a valuable lesson. I am talking especially about the cases when we suffer something from the relationship and its disappointing transformations with certain people! I mean man builds completely different relationships, which may not apply to lecturing or lecturing! Life has a variety of feelings, emotions, relationships, experiences, activities, actions, cramps, services, places, vanities, commitments that grip us naturally, without any genuine prior decision-making! Especially in the case of feelings the decision remains out of the game. And to understand that the feeling is not only that of love for a partner! I judge that the hope of finding oneself and feeling full in the next world is more of an alibi to cover the relative inability possessed by all mortals in the living world after all! I have always thought so: the other world offers everyone a life of atoms, molecules, but never feelings. And I have also always said that satiety comes only in a moment, in that of extinction of life. Because life is an endless quest towards this peak. The moment they reach it, it dies. In this world there are feelings, so there are disappointments! But everyone has feelings; even convicted criminals e.g. Just to have a chance to see how they give compassion to their children! The world on this side is contradictory: there is pleasure but also dissatisfaction! But, people should understand once and for all that they serve each other's pleasure. In many cases, perhaps, without being reciprocal, or only partially reciprocal! And sometimes the expectation of reciprocity blocks the chances of enjoying or experiencing pleasure! Therefore man must avoid the selfishness of reason and allow the pleasure of the other! Certainly not at the expense of degrading or undermining dignity. We choose pleasure. Dissatisfaction chooses us! Necessary altruism! We write. Petro. people need to understand once and for all that they serve each other's pleasure. In many cases, perhaps, without being reciprocal, or only partially reciprocal! And sometimes the expectation of reciprocity blocks the chances of enjoying or experiencing pleasure! Therefore man must avoid the selfishness of reason and allow the pleasure of the other! Certainly not at the expense of degrading or undermining dignity. We choose pleasure. Dissatisfaction chooses us! Necessary altruism! We write. Petro. people need to understand once and for all that they serve each other's pleasure. In many cases, perhaps, without being reciprocal, or only partially reciprocal! And sometimes the expectation of reciprocity blocks the chances of enjoying or experiencing pleasure! Therefore man must avoid the selfishness of reason and allow the pleasure of the other! Certainly not at the expense of degrading or undermining dignity. We choose pleasure. Dissatisfaction chooses us! Necessary altruism! We write. Petro. Dissatisfaction chooses us! Necessary altruism! We write. Petro. Dissatisfaction chooses us! Necessary altruism! We write. Petro.