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Get to know the five strong reasons to say yes to getting back with your ex

Get to know the five strong reasons to say yes to getting back with your ex

Many times we have written about relationships between couples, about break-ups, about real dead-end stories and about reconnecting with people who for some reason had left our lives. We've also covered the questions you should ask yourself before getting back into a relationship with an ex and even broken down what dreams with an ex can mean.

From all of the above, you can understand (if you don't already know) that getting back into a relationship that has ended is not the best idea. In this particular article, however, you'll read the reasons to say yes to a reunion if it's something you're thinking about.

Psychotherapist and marriage therapist Annie Armstrong Miyao points out that people can mature and change (if they really want to), while presenting five "green flags" that can lead to a smooth reconnection.

You broke up because of bad timing

Maybe you broke up because you lived in different areas and didn't know when you would be able to be together normally. Or you just broke up because you were at different stages in your life and now the circumstances are right to get back together. "If the logical and emotional states that led to the end of the relationship have changed, now may be the time to get back together."

There can be faith

If there was a breach of trust during your relationship, before you start building new ones with the same person again, ask yourself if you can trust them. If the apologies that need to be said have been said, if you both feel like you can put what happened behind you and move forward with a foundation of trust and honesty, then move on. "Make sure that both members of the couple must recognize the responsibility and burden in the relationship. Remember that the trust part means that a part of you is always ready to be hurt.”

You feel more mature and ready to face the challenges of the relationship

Every relationship has its challenges and weaknesses, even when we know the other person well. Has the way you or the other person handles situations changed? Are you also influenced by external factors? What happens when you are psychologically stressed? "If you didn't like the way things turned out in stressful situations in the past, discuss how you will deal with similar events in the future so you don't repeat the same destructive patterns."

You accept the other

As you wonder whether or not you should get back together, consider whether you are truly ready and willing to commit to a relationship with the same person. The question you should ask yourself is, "Can I deal with the difficulties that exist in this particular relationship?" "I strongly believe in the human ability to change and mature. But can you love a man for who he is now? Can you patiently accept and understand his faults?'

Your value system is the same

During the time you were apart, you probably thought a lot. You worked on yourself (either alone or with the help of an expert) and something changed. So did the other man. Now, your views on life match. For example, at first you may have had different views on raising your children or having offspring in general, but now the views are aligned. "It is very important before you get together to have a serious discussion about each other's position on issues such as family formation, religion or financial planning. If you "find" them, it is enough to try them".